Female Fate (5)

Then, the several examples of female horoscopes we mentioned last time are from the book *San Ming Tong Hui* (Comprehensive Treatise on the Three Styles of Fate Calculation). Well, this is different from the female horoscopes determined by the Ten Gods. The Ten Gods method only discusses whether your husband is prosperous or in a state of decline, whether there are ways (to deal with the situation), whether there are clashes, and whether there is the situation of the Hurting Officer encountering the Official which restrains your Husband Star. The so - called "husband - restraining" generally means divorce or break - up. This is the standard of the Ten Gods method. If we follow the text in *San Ming Tong Hui*, it goes deeper. Will the husband die? The difference between divorce and death cannot be simply discussed in terms of prosperity and decline. It also has to do with the Five - Element nature and the Four - Season nature (spring, summer, autumn, and winter). That is to say, as I mentioned last time, for those born in the Wood - Tiger month, Fire - Snake month, or Fire - Horse month, major problems may occur. If one is born in other months, no matter how many clashes or punishments there are, it's just a matter of whether you get along well or not in the relationship!

Well, since we've delved into the positioning of the Ten Gods, we must understand the characteristics of the Five Elements. When it comes to female horoscopes, we take the husband as the standard. Metal overcomes Wood, which represents the Officer and Seven Killers. Wood overcomes Earth, and that also represents the Officer and Seven Killers. All five types of overcoming relationships represent the Officer and Seven Killers. Whether it's strong or not, or whether there's conflict or not, these are already the results. Is he wealthy? Is he not? Do they get along? Do they not? So, when it comes to talking about the husband's personality, it varies. Let me give an example. For a woman with Wood as the Day Master, Metal is her husband. Metal overcomes Wood, like using a knife to cut a piece of wood into two sections. But the wood remains the same, just in two pieces. The wood isn't affected at all. So, for a female horoscope with Wood as the Day Master, whether they're in love or not, once they break up, there isn't any substantial and serious connection.

When it comes to the situation where water overcomes fire in the context of a husband - wife relationship, it's different. Everyone, just think about it. What will happen when water meets fire? It's different from the case where metal overcomes wood. When metal overcomes wood, it's like a clean cut with a single stroke of the knife. But when water overcomes fire, it creates a cloud of smoke everywhere. It's a fight to the death! Water may not necessarily overcome fire; it's even possible that the water gets extinguished by the fire. So, if something happens in the case of water overcoming fire, it will cause a huge stir in the town, a fight to the bitter end! Even if it's about divorce or a breakup, the process is different! Well, in terms of the Five - Element personalities, you can now understand what I'm talking about.

So, what about wood overcoming earth? How does wood overcome earth? Just like memorizing formulas, it's the same. But if you think carefully, wood overcoming earth is just a tree growing on the land. It's just that the tree roots grasp the earth! Wood doesn't really "overcome" the earth in any other way. Well, if in the case where wood overcoming earth represents the husband, let's not talk about the good - fortune situation. Once it turns out to be a bad - fortune situation, this wife always feels that her husband is controlling her all the time, but there aren't any really significant matters. Wood overcoming earth is like a tree on top, it just holds you, without really harming you. So, in the case of wood overcoming earth, she feels that she has to report to him even when going out, and has to tell him even when spending a few extra dollars. This kind of situation accumulates into unhappiness.

Does it mean that when earth restrains water, it represents a husband? Well, it's different! Everyone, just think about it. If you pour a basin of water on the mucky soil, can you see the water? You can't see it at all. It's all absorbed. So, whether it's the man restraining the woman or the woman restraining the man, it becomes a situation of complete control, and the other party has no say at all. This is the consequence caused by the Five - Elemental Temperaments. If there is no clash or punishment, both sides will just endure. If there is a clash or restraint, the fuse is the Five - Elemental Temperaments, not entirely because of money. We often say that the real reason for a couple's divorce due to money is not common. It's just an old saying - they can't get along. What does it mean by "can't get along"? Well, it has to be classified according to the Five - Elemental Temperaments.

Now, I'll give you these examples. Each husband of a female's Bazi chart has a Five - Element nature. These Five Elements are in conflict with hers. When we talk based on the Five - Element nature, it's like having a heart - to - heart conversation. There's also another part that isn't just a heart - to - heart. The Five Elements themselves have certain characteristics, and there are various relationships of generation, restraint, control, and transformation. For example, in a female's Bazi chart, the output (Shangguan and Shi Shen) represents children. In plain language, it's just about whether the children study well, whether they'll be successful in the future, and whether they get along well with you. This is what we call fortune - telling. If you think deeper, what does it mean that the children study well? And the matter of getting along well with you is even more abstract. What exactly does "getting along well" mean? Here, we need to talk about the fundamentals of the Five Elements.

For example, we say that water generates wood. If a female's Day Master is water, then her children are wood. How does water generate wood? Think about it carefully. This water has to run from the tree roots into the tree. So, for a woman whose element is water generating wood, she knows exactly what her children are thinking. She gets into your body. This is what is meant by "water generates wood".

So, what about wood generating fire? It also refers to children. Whether they will achieve success depends on the favorable and unfavorable aspects such as prosperous, inauspicious, conflicting, and punishing. The mother - child relationship varies. How does wood generate fire? Wood has to be set on fire to produce fire. What happens in the end? The wood is gone. So, that kind of motherly love is to completely sacrifice herself to fulfill the child.

Then, when comparing the two, the person in the "Water generates Wood" relationship is very attentive to children. She can understand what children are thinking and what they want to do. She seems to have penetrated into the children's hearts. However, the person in the "Wood generates Fire" relationship doesn't care what you think at all. She can completely sacrifice herself for the children. You can see in the newspapers about people donating their livers and so on. The self - sacrifice is too great! As for whether the children appreciate this and whether it has an effect? That depends on the clashes, punishments, and the states of prosperity and decline, one being "Water generates Wood" and the other being "Wood generates Fire".

In addition, when fire generates earth, it also represents children, and the situation is different again. What will the result be? It turns to ash, and there's nothing left. So in fortune - telling, the combination of fire generating earth is highly tabooed. No matter what you do, it's all in vain. Well, I've also heard some mothers tell me that they care very much about their children. But what do the children say to them? "You'd better care about me less!" So when fire generates earth, all efforts are in vain.

So, what about the theory that earth gives birth to metal? According to the theory of the Five Elements' characteristics, here, I'm talking about the female's fate. In the future, when it comes to non - female fates, the explanation will be the same. Once this "metal" appears, there isn't going to be a lump of gold dug out right away! There isn't even a lump of iron dug out! What's dug out are all ore sands. Then, one has to work on the ore sands slowly. So, earth giving birth to metal doesn't mean you can directly dig out metal. However, metal is dug out from the earth and needs to be refined slowly. That is to say, earth giving birth to metal doesn't mean directly arranging a school for him, arranging a teacher for him, or deciding whether it's better for him to study in Australia. There are so many, many minor issues to cultivate him.

Well, in the theory of "metal generates water", there seems to be no obvious connection between metal and water. How can metal turn into water? It needs to be melted at a temperature above 1000 degrees. So, this is rather labor - intensive. This theory of the Five - Element Attributes will also be useful in fortune - telling for male lives in the future. When we talk about clashes, punishments, and the strength or weakness, it's just about the future outcome, which has nothing to do with whether you get along well with others or not. The theory of the Five - Element Attributes focuses on the process, regardless of success or failure. Therefore, after I supplement the theory of the Five - Element Attributes, we can then discuss the Four Pillars of Destiny.

For example, take the previous example: Ren Yin Bing Wu Yi Wei Geng Chen Now, when we talk about the eight characters of one's birth date, we don't use the ten divine positions for positioning. First, we can see that Yi and Geng combine, and the husband star is involved in the combination. The person was born in summer. As the book says, metal is in a weak state! When talking about the eight characters, we don't quote a lot of texts. We can directly tell from the five - element theory. What will happen if you put a piece of metal on fire? It will get very hot. Even if it doesn't melt, you can't hold it! This analogy can be directly applied to her husband. Her husband is like that hot piece of metal. It's uncomfortable even when he sits beside you. Metal is in a weak state! Then, regarding this Geng, check if there is Geng among the hidden heavenly stems in the earthly branches. There isn't. Only the single character Geng floats at the hour stem. Whether this person's marriage ends in divorce or not, that is to say, as ordinary people would put it, she just has a husband. It doesn't really touch her heart deeply! If it has roots, it will be different.

We can see that for some women, if their husbands are half an hour late from work, they'll call around looking for them. In fact, it doesn't really matter. If the husband calls to say he won't be coming home at night, that's that. This is a matter of being firmly rooted or not. Now, if a woman is born in summer when metal is weak, it means that in her whole life, she'll have only one loving husband. Assuming the situation is not good, like divorce or other circumstances, no matter what, the conditions of her husband won't be very high. Then after the age of 45, her husband will have some influence. From the age of 45 to 60, it can be seen from the external appearance that there is a relationship with her husband. This is rather abstract. Let me give an example. For an ordinary housewife, people don't even know who her husband is. But if your husband is the general manager of a big company, people will address you as "Madam". A general manager may not necessarily be rich; it could just be an empty title. But after the age of 45, your husband and you will be associated in society. This is when her husband star becomes obvious. Now, let me explain the third example: Ding Chou Yi Si Bing Zi Gui Si In this Bazi, Gui water is the proper official. For now, let's not follow what the book says. The book says that for a female with Bing as the day master, she'll have a hard - working life and it's not very likely that her husband will pass away. That's the key point in the book. Now, let's look at it according to the common method of fortune - telling. There is a proper official at the hour stem, and water restrains fire. Is there a proper official in the earthly branches? Yes, there is Zi water. That is to say, her husband star at the hour stem has its root in the earthly branch where it sits. This is the most obvious feature of her Bazi. Looking at the Si month in the month column, referring to the rules of Lu and Jue, water is in the state of Jue at Si and is prosperous at Hai and Zi. That's how it is according to the formula. How to explain it in actual fortune - telling? It means that before the age of 30, her husband won't be capable. After the age of 30, it reaches Zi, and her husband will become capable and remain so until the age of 45. That's 15 years. Then, until the heavenly stem of the hour pillar, another 15 years can be added. So, in her middle - age and old - age, her husband will be capable. This is how to explain it based on the hour pillar and the sitting position.

Since there are no clashes or punishments in this Bazi, regardless of whether you are capable or not, the objective conditions are all normal. Before the age of thirty, it's the husband who works harder. Well, the later years are also represented by the "Si" hour. If we explain it further, it means the husband won't be capable in his later years. But we can't interpret it like this, because a person should retire after the age of sixty and doesn't need to be capable. If a person with the Bing Day Master is born at the Zi hour, according to the literal interpretation, it means the husband will only be capable in his later years. This may not necessarily be a good thing! Life should be stable after the age of thirty. If life only becomes stable after the age of sixty, it's too tough.

Saying there is a way or there is no way, in a single sentence, it's all the same. It's better to discuss it in terms of age, and that's judged by common human feelings. There is a Rob Wealth star in the year pillar, which means this young lady's family environment was very difficult when she was a child. There is a Proper Seal star in the month pillar. The Proper Seal star represents elegance and can also be interpreted as the mother. After the age of sixteen, she has a good relationship with her mother and is of an artistic nature, not really fond of talking about reality. The month branch is Si. Bing gets its prosperity in Si. We say that her body is strong. In her twenties, this young lady has a lot of opinions and always hopes to do things her own way because her body is strong. After the age of thirty, she sits on the prosperous position of her husband star. At that time, her husband will be capable, and he will remain capable until the age of sixty.

Then the earthly branch of the hour is also "Jianlu". The common - sense interpretation of "Jianlu" in the month is that she is ambitious when young. When it comes to old age, the "Jianlu" with a strong body is not interpreted as ambition. Instead, she meddles in other people's affairs and refuses to admit her age. She asks about things that she doesn't need to care about at all. This is the case for a female's fate. If it is a male's fate, he is less likely to retire. So, according to the theory of the Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches in the Four Pillars, the explanations are the same in theory. However, when it comes to real - world interpretations, they should be based on common sense. According to "San Ming Tong Hui", for the Day Masters of Yi and Bing, the key point it illustrates is just to tell us that for the female fates with these two Day Masters, the possibility of becoming a widow when young is very small.

Those with the Yi Day Master are gentle and more obedient. The Bing Day Master is a Yang Day Master. Everyone, just think about fire! Whether it's a male or female horoscope, fire is something that can be seen at a glance. Strike a match and you can see it right away. How does it feel when fire gets close to you? It's hot! It's dangerous! So those with the Bing Day Master have that kind of dazzling aura, making people feel their presence everywhere. Those with the Yi Day Master are different. The Yi Day Master is like very gentle wood, inconspicuous. Due to their personality, those with the Bing Day Master will have more gossip. Since there are no clashes, punishments, combinations, or meetings in this horoscope, there won't be any particularly big problems in one's life. Well, perhaps everyone will ask, you said that her husband will be capable after she turns thirty. Then can you tell when she will get married? Well, that's a matter of the annual luck.

There are significant differences between the annual luck and the eight characters of one's birth date. Then I can give you a key explanation. The eight characters of one's birth date tell about the level of one's own destiny. For example, it indicates whether you will have tens of millions of assets, whether you will remain single all your life, whether you will have an affectionate marriage or get divorced. This is a phenomenon. The annual luck is different. The annual luck is about feelings. If you earned 300,000 last year and 500,000 this year, you are having good luck. If you earned 3 million last year and 2 million this year, you are having bad luck. The annual luck has no substantial meaning. It is compared with last year.

Fortune - telling can calculate the quality of your marital affection. If the annual fortune is not good, for example, if you get married this year, it can be calculated from the annual fortune. However, it can't tell how good or bad your marriage will be in the future. Because it only covers one - year's situation. So, the fundamental difference between the annual fortune and the eight - character horoscope lies right here. Well, I'd like to say that the eight - character horoscope can only show the quality of your marriage, but it can't tell in which year you'll meet your partner. To know when you'll meet your partner, you need to look at the annual fortune. The annual fortune can tell that you'll get married this year, but it can't tell how good or bad your husband is. Nor can it tell whether you'll have an affectionate marriage throughout your life or whether there will be problems. The annual fortune can't give these answers. I'll briefly explain this to you all. As for whether I should talk about the horoscope itself or the annual fortune, it varies from person to person! It also depends on what the main topic is. Now, let's explain the following eight - character horoscope: Geng Chen, Jia Shen, Ji Si, Yi Chou Then, the stems Jia, Yi, Bing come up. Since only seven examples are given, for this example of Ji as the day - master, besides talking about the husband - star, we also need to talk about the nature of the five elements. Wu and Ji belong to earth. Wu is thick and heavy earth, while Ji is called farmland earth. We're just making the simplest explanation here, because talking about the likes and dislikes of the ten heavenly stems is another topic. Farmland earth is for farming, and Wu earth is like city - wall earth, so the yang earth is very hard. Since it's farmland earth, it's shallow, so it's not afraid of clashes. For a good horoscope, there are still two things indispensable. It needs to be exposed to the sun, and it can't be dry. Now we're talking about a female horoscope. So, what about the husband of the Ji day - master?

Mu, Pao, and Tu, Jia and Yi! Born in the Shen month of autumn. Associating with the Birth, Prosperity, and Tomb of the Ten Heavenly Stems, Jia's Lu is in Yin and its Jue is in Shen. Since the Husband Star sits at Jue in the month, this girl has a very gentle personality. Regardless of her fate, there will be changes in her relationships with boyfriends or in marriage. Before the age of thirty, her husband will achieve little. In today's terms, the money he brings home should not exceed 50,000. This is the situation where Jia is at Jue in Shen.

What about early marriage and late marriage? Let's see if there are the Heavenly Officials (zheng guan) or the Seven Killings (qi sha) among the Heavenly Stems. If there is a Heavenly Official in the month pillar, it indicates early marriage. However, in the case of jia shen where the husband sits in the state of extinction, one will meet their partner around the age of twenty. To put it nicely, it's about romanticism. It doesn't matter whether the partner is rich or not; as long as one is willing, it's okay. It's not until after the age of thirty that the husband will have a turn for the better. This is just an empty theory. Speaking from a human - nature perspective, "Poverty makes a couple suffer in every aspect!" According to my experience, if the husband can't pay the rent for three years, usually it's time to say bye - bye!

Therefore, for those whose husband star sits in the "absolute" position, the reason for the husband's departure is due to circumstances. If there is a mixture of official and killing stars, it usually means that this woman has too complicated romantic relationships. If the husband star is combined with other stars, problems are likely to occur on the husband's side. When the husband star sits in the "absolute" position, because of poor circumstances, love can't replace food, and there will be changes after three years. Then, before the age of thirty, will there be one or two changes? It depends on the annual luck. To put it simply, before the age of thirty, whether it's once or twice, there's no need to count the number! Each time it happens, it won't work out. This is called the husband star sitting in the "absolute" position.

So, let's see what's on the year pillar. It's Geng. Earth generates metal, which represents the Hurting Officer. It doesn't mean her family is wealthy. As you all know, the Hurting Officer restrains the Officer. Her husband is represented by the Heavenly Stem of the month pillar. With the Hurting Officer on the year pillar, it can be interpreted that her parents didn't approve of her marriage, and it was her own decision. Now, looking at the Heavenly Stem Yi on the hour pillar. For the Ji Day Master, wood restrains earth, which represents the husband. This leads to the mixing of the Officer and the Seven Killers! What we've just talked about falls into two categories. Firstly, the Husband Star sits in the state of Extinction, and the Extinction is in the month. When the husband is in the state of Tomb or Extinction, it's like an old woman being trapped, which is clearly stated in the classics. Secondly, there's a clash between Jia and Geng on the year pillar with the Hurting Officer, indicating a marriage that her parents didn't approve of and was decided by herself. Next, let's continue to talk about other characteristics of this Bazi.

The hour pillar is Yichou. Yi represents the Seven Killings, and Jia on the month pillar is the Direct Official. This is what we call the mixing of the Official and the Killings! Generally, the mixing of the Official and the Killings is taboo for a female's fate. However, the mixing of the Official and the Killings between the month and the hour is much less serious. Why? The month represents the period from 16 to 30 years old, and the hour represents after 46 years old. For a female, marriage can still be discussed after 45 years old, but we don't consider the earthly branch of the hour. After 60 years old, even if there are some emotional affairs, it doesn't matter and we don't discuss it. So, the mixing of the Official and the Killings between the month and the hour means that the marriage before 30 years old has nothing to do with that after 45 years old. There is a gap of 15 years in between! There are no moral or traditional issues as we generally talk about. It doesn't matter.

But for ordinary people, two marriages are never a perfect thing. When the monthly pillar has the co - existence of the Seven Killings and the Official, it is reasonable to indicate two marriages.

This is a situation where the official and the seven - killing stars are mixed in the monthly pillar. Some women with troubled marriages come to ask me, "Do you think I'll still have a romantic life in the future?" If judged by this theory, the answer is yes. The mixing of the official and the seven - killing stars here shows this particular characteristic.

There are other characteristics that can be observed. This is what I'm talking to you about regarding the issue of "connecting to the root," which refers to the hidden Heavenly Stems within the Earthly Branches. Among the Heavenly Stems, there is Jia, the Direct Officer, but there is no Jia among the four Earthly Branches. Yi, the Seven Kills, exists among the four Earthly Branches. In the Year Pillar, there are Yi, Wu, and Gui, which include the Seven Kills. Then, the Direct Officer sits in an "absolute" position in the Month Order and has no root. This means that before the age of thirty, during her prime years of popularity, the conditions of her men are not good.

If there is a Seven Killings rooted in the annual pillar in the Bazi, according to this interpretation method, the second man she is with is someone she knew before. Since it is rooted in the annual branch! She knew this man earlier than her former husband. Well, some ladies have also asked me! Will there be a romantic life in my old age? Yes. Will it be someone newly acquainted or someone I already know? In the case of this Bazi, it's someone she knew long ago. She knew this person earlier than her husband. This is another way of interpretation.

However, there is also a set of theories in this Bazi that can significantly influence her marriage throughout her life.

As we all know, there is the combination of Jia and Ji, and the combination of Si and Shen. The combination of Heavenly Stems and the combination of Earthly Branches are what we call the double six - combinations. For men, it means having a wide circle of friends. For women, it is a big taboo. Even if the husband star is not in a state of extinction and the official and killing elements are not mixed, having too wide a circle of friends can bring a lot of troubles. Well, fortune - telling focuses on the results rather than the causes. If you only have one boyfriend and something goes wrong, it's of course very undesirable. If you've had several boyfriends and nothing has happened, fortune - telling doesn't consider it a major problem because it hasn't actually caused any real disasters.

Regarding this kind of double Liuhé (a term in Chinese fortune - telling), is it about her husband's death or divorce? These are two different things. Even if her husband has his own means, she has the personality associated with double Liuhé. She knows a large number of people, has a wide circle of friends, and a broad social network. This is what is called "many harmonious relationships and high - status connections", which is taboo for a woman's fate. Since she became sensible, her social circle has been very wide. From then until she is forty - five years old, that is, for a full thirty years, there will be a lot of fussy matters between men and women. As for the husband star sitting in a state of "absolute decline" and the mixing of official and killing stars, that's another matter. This has nothing to do with whether one has a good social network or not.

So, there are a total of four points for this Bazi: one is that the husband star sits at the dead position; one is the mixture of the official and the seven - killing; one is that the proper official has no root while the seven - killing has a root; and the fourth is the double combination of the day and the month. The rules for calculating a female's Bazi usually do not exceed thirty. Then, when combined in various ways, each Bazi is different. Compared with the previous three Bazi, this Bazi is the worst. For the first one with the Jia heavenly stem as the Day Master, the woman is a wealthy widow without other gossip. For the second one with the Yi heavenly stem as the Day Master, her husband is just an ordinary person earning tens of thousands of yuan a month. Sometimes, her husband can also have good luck for ten or eight years. It's a very ordinary fate. In family affairs, her husband may have a short - term affair - the combination of Yi and Geng.

Third, what about the person with Bing as the Day Master? Its characteristic is that such a person has a good middle age. Because in the case of Bing Zi, Gui Water appears on the Heavenly Stems, and the Month and Hour Pillars are in the state of Lin Guan. They are a bit individualistic and generally not in a difficult situation. Only the person with Ji as the Day Master is in a bad situation. The Husband Star sits in the state of Jue and the conditions are poor. Moreover, there is a mixture of Officials and Killings on the Heavenly Stems. The only difference between having them on the Heavenly Stems and not having them on the Heavenly Stems is that when they are on the Heavenly Stems, everyone knows about it; otherwise, no one knows. I also know some people whose private lives are not necessarily good, but no one talks about it. There are also some people who have a minor problem occasionally, and everyone knows about it. This is the situation when it is on the Heavenly Stems. Moreover, they have a wide circle of friends but have no money. This is considered the worst case.

Let me give another example below: Renwu Guichou Gengshen Dingchou The content of this Bazi is different from the previous ones, and the theory used needs to be more extensive. The previous few Bazi were probably all among the good fates. Even the first one, which is considered a good fate, can at most be said to reach tens of millions and cannot go higher. Now, this Bazi represents a higher level, over tens of millions. The level of one's fate is similar to what we say about being a person, which involves favorable timing, geographical advantages, and good interpersonal relationships. Generally speaking, small wealth depends on hard work, while great wealth depends on heaven! Heaven here means opportunities!

In fortune - telling, there is a specific term called "Regulating Qi and Selecting the Useful God". Well - endowed people in terms of fate must have a "Regulating Qi and Selecting the Useful God". "Qi" here refers to the climate, including spring, summer, autumn, and winter. Now, this birth - chart meets this condition. The principle of "Regulating Qi" is the same for both men and women, but individuals have different backgrounds. The most obvious cases of "Regulating Qi" occur in summer and winter. So for people born in these two seasons, wealth, official rank, and seal (in the context of fortune - telling) become secondary, and "Regulating Qi" is the top priority! It's like when we go out in summer and winter, there are special rules for dressing. In spring and autumn, people can dress casually, and it doesn't matter if you wear one more or one less piece of clothing.

In the context of the Five Elements, for those born in summer, and by summer I mean the fourth and fifth months of the lunar calendar, the peak of summer when it's extremely hot, regardless of the Day Master and the other elements in the Bazi (Eight Characters), water is a must. Without water, the balance will be disrupted. For those born in winter, specifically the eleventh and twelfth months of the lunar calendar when it's very cold, fire must be present in the Bazi! This is what we call the "Seasonal Adjustment God". Generally speaking, it's rare to have such ideal Bazi configurations. Water and fire are just names; in reality, we need to translate them into the Ten Gods!

This Geng Metal is born in the Chou month, which is winter metal. There is a well - known slogan: "When metal is cold and water is frigid, Bing and Ding are needed!" In winter, the metal is cold. Taking water as an example, it represents coldness. For those with the metal as the Day Master born in winter, whether it is a good or bad fate depends on Bing and Ding. If there are Bing and Ding in the Bazi, your fate will be prosperous! Without Bing and Ding, you won't achieve great success, but it doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad fate. The difference between those with favorable environmental adjustment and those with good Bazi patterns lies in that for a good pattern, the wealth, official, and seal stars are strong without conflicts or combinations. This means that you achieve success through your own efforts, but your self - made efforts are limited.

Based on my experience, without the promotion from superiors, even if you have good academic qualifications and work ability, generally speaking, you can at most reach the position of a department head. If you want to go higher than that, you must have good interpersonal relationships! Or there must be some special circumstances, which is called the "auspicious element for adjustment". For those with a fortune of over ten million or even over a hundred million, there must be an "auspicious element for adjustment". Without it, you won't be able to achieve high positions. This applies to men, and it's the same for women! It requires Bing and Ding. So what do the two characters Bing and Ding represent? Still according to the positioning of the ten gods, if you have a Geng Day Master, Bing and Ding are your husband stars. Then your blessings and the source of your future lie with your husband.

Well, as we've mentioned before, if the husband's element is in an official position and there are favorable combinations of wealth, official status, and seal, it indicates a good fate. Or if the element for balancing the climate is the husband's star and it is strong, the only question is whether it exists. If your husband's star is in a prosperous state, such as the proper official or the seven-kill being prosperous, it means having tens of millions. Take this Bazi (Eight Characters of Birth) as an example. For a person with the Geng Day Master born in winter, there is Ding in the hour stem. Ding is both the favorable element for balancing the climate and her husband's star, so it's even better, meaning having over tens of millions. So, it's said that for both male and female fates, if the favorable element for balancing the climate appears in the heavenly stem, it's a good sign. If you have the favorable element for balancing the climate, you don't need to follow all the rules in the positioning of the ten gods. For instance, we say that the husband's star is afraid of being clashed, afraid of being in an exhausted state, afraid of being combined, and afraid of the mixture of official and kill. But if you have the element for balancing the climate, it doesn't matter at all, and it still indicates a good fate. It may sound contradictory, but it's not.

Those who truly understand life, let me elaborate a bit so that you all can understand. How do you view life? For an ordinary couple, if the husband has an affair with another woman or comes home late, the wife usually shows her dissatisfaction. However, a woman with good character won't. For example, I won't mention names here. There's a very wealthy and well - known figure in the entertainment industry in Hong Kong. He has many women, but his wife simply doesn't care. It doesn't matter how many women he has outside or whether he comes home. She has that kind of tolerance. Usually, noble ladies have such tolerance. Her husband still can't get along well with her and still has an affair outside because he has very high standards, and the woman just doesn't care. So, having good character is of utmost importance. For a woman with a favorable character - related element in her Bazi (Chinese astrological birth chart), all these so - called flaws don't exist. She thinks that rich men are just like this, which is completely different from the views of salaried couples. So, even if this Bazi has the situation of "the God of Punishment meets the Official" and there is a mixture of the Official and the Seven Killers, or there are clashes among the four pillars, it doesn't matter. It won't affect your fortune.

Everyone, if I ask you whether it's more important to have a loving relationship between husband and wife or to be wealthy, you can't take it to the extreme. If someone is truly wealthy, with billions of dollars, it seems that it doesn't really matter whether the couple is together or not. On the other hand, no matter how loving a couple is, if they don't even have enough to eat, that love won't be of much use. So, generally speaking, there's no need to go to extremes. In this Bazi (Eight Characters in Chinese fortune - telling), it's a situation of "gold is cold and water is cold", and it requires Bing and Ding (two of the Ten Heavenly Stems in Chinese astrology). This is considered a good fate with a "regulating and balancing divine element". Fortunately, there is Ding Fire here, and this applies to both male and female fates. There's also a difference here. Her Ding is in the Hour Pillar. When does this good fortune come? In her old age! That means she can enjoy good fortune until she is very, very old. That's the explanation from the perspective of regulating and balancing in Bazi.

Let's analyze this Bazi (Four Pillars of Destiny) from the perspective of ordinary Bazi theory. There is a Gourmet God in the year pillar. Anyway, if there is Wealth, Official, Seal, or Gourmet God in the year pillar, it means the person is born into a comfortable family. In today's terms, the family at least owns a house and the person won't have a hard life. There is an Hurting Officer in the month pillar and it is completely exposed, which is unfavorable to her husband. If there is no regulating and balancing God in the Bazi, it indicates a very bad marriage.

Even with the favorable elements for regulating the climate in the Bazi (Chinese horoscope), the marriage is still not ideal. It's just that the requirements for a partner are extremely high. In the case of the female's Bazi with "Guichou" where the Hurting Officer sits on another Hurting Officer, in terms of her personality, she is very arrogant. She also has talent and learning, and her educational background is not bad. Since she has the favorable elements for regulating the climate, the conditions of the partner she expects are high. The Day Master is Geng Metal, and in the case of "Gengshen" where the Day Master sits on its own Prosperity, she is very confident! Well, if there were no favorable elements for regulating the climate, the situation would be very bad. She is knowledgeable, arrogant, and very confident in herself, and she can't get along well with her husband. But since she has the favorable elements for regulating the climate, and the partner has tens of millions of assets or more, the situation is different.

Well, there is another feature. There are two occurrences of the "Tianyi Nobleman" in the Bazi (Eight Characters). If a person's Bazi has two columns of Tianyi Nobleman, they will have noble people helping them from youth to old age. Now, let's talk about this Bazi in two parts. If we don't consider the issue of "adjusting the climate", the person has a bad marriage, is very arrogant and self - confident. However, there are noble people to assist. Once the character "Ding" appears, which is related to "adjusting the climate", all these above - mentioned factors become unimportant because "Ding" represents her husband. Even though they may not get along well, she, as a woman, has all the rights that she should have.

There are no clashes or punishments in this Bazi, so there aren't any major difficulties. Then this is considered a good fortune! When it comes to defining what a good or bad fortune is, in the upper - class society, it only means being wealthy. For example, if your husband is a county magistrate, whether you quarrel or not doesn't matter much. In the middle - class society, a couple who set up a street stall together and love each other deeply is also considered to have a good fortune! Therefore, the choice between the two depends half on objective reality and half on one's outlook on life.