Female Horoscope (2)

The official represents the husband, and wealth represents the father. When wealth is prosperous, there is glory from heaven. The eater represents the son, and the seal represents the mother. When the seal is strong, the son is in a weak position. We know that for a male's horoscope, wealth represents the wife and money. Although parents do have a certain influence on it, it's not the most important factor. So, fortune - telling emphasizes the generation, restraint, control, and transformation. Simply saying that when wealth is prosperous, the father is well - off is the way of positioning the ten gods. But if we consider the entire eight - character horoscope comprehensively, it's not the case. Everything is interconnected! So, what does it mean when wealth restrains the seal? When wealth restrains the seal! Once your father has the means, your mother will lose her status! If you think about it, it makes quite a lot of sense. Well, wealth represents merchants, and the seal represents literature. It might not be very appropriate for a merchant to write an article. This is the case of restraint. The same goes for the seal. The seal represents the mother. When the seal is in a prosperous position, it means your mother is doing well. But it is said in the classics that when the seal is strong, the son is in a weak position. The seal represents the mother, which is about the six relatives. What does the seal restrain? The seal restrains the eater and the injury.

If the Seal element is in the Year Pillar, it's very simply interpreted as meaning that one's mother is resourceful. If it's in the Month Pillar, it indicates that one is very intelligent and steady. If it's in the Hour Pillar, it can also mean that one is learned. However, it's different for female命格! The Seal element restrains the Output and Hurting Officer elements. For female命格, it's most feared that the Seal element sits in the Pillar! Even if one has a strong Child element or strong Output and Hurting Officer elements, it won't work because the Seal restrains the Output and Hurting Officer. Then, there's an unwritten rule. The Seal represents literature and art. The more learned a woman is, the less likely she is to be good at taking care of children. Maybe there's such an aspect in it. When it comes to children, the Seal restraining the Output and Hurting Officer is unfavorable for children. If you're asking about learning, then it's about learning and has nothing to do with children. We should judge each matter on its own. In命理, there's no such thing as covering all aspects. So, in practical fortune - telling, for the general aspects of wife, wealth, children, official rank, and longevity, if you can have one of them, your life won't be in vain. The worst - case scenario is having none of them, which means living a wasted life! Also, when talking about parents, we also mention that the Seal restrains children.

The Heavenly Stem of the Day should not be too strong. For male and female horoscopes, the strength of the Day Master is exactly the opposite. A male's Day Master should be strong. Take the Jia Day Master for example. In the theory of the Five Elements, the East corresponds to Jia, Yi, Yin, and Mao which are associated with wood. Except for the Year Pillar (as the person is too young at that time), starting from the Month Pillar, if a person with a Jia Day is born in the Yin Month, they will have great aspirations at a young age. If a person with a Jia Day is born in the Yin Hour, they will only want to achieve something in their later years. However, this is not suitable for female horoscopes. A female's Heavenly Stem of the Day should not be too strong. Here, the word "too" is emphasized. If a woman with a Jia Day is born in the Yin Month, she will hardly admire her husband. It's not that her husband is really bad, but from her perspective, he still falls a bit short. If both Yin and Mao are present in her horoscope, then her Day Master is too strong. The standards she demands exceed the average. When the Day Master is too strong, one's ambitions are too high.

Ladies and gentlemen, just imagine. When the Day Master is strong, it means being in the states of Lin Guan (Riding on Official) or Di Wang (Emperor's Prosperity), which correspond to Bi Jian (Peer) and Jie Cai (Rob Wealth). This is because the hidden Heavenly Stems in the Earthly Branches are Bi Jian and Jie Cai. Officials and Killers suppress Bi Jian and Jie Cai. If you have so many Bi Jian and Jie Cai, how can the Officials and Killers control you? Therefore, the Day Master should not be too strong. If it is too strong, even if you are wealthy, you will still be dissatisfied. Well, this is related to the old saying: "For a woman, ignorance is a virtue." I don't really agree with it! Thinking less will bring more blessings.

The Day Master should not be too strong. Well, she will be lonely and miserable. Loneliness and misery are different from being widowed or childless. Does being widowed or childless mean having nothing? Being lonely and miserable means she has a husband, but he ignores her, and she is very distressed! She also has children! Every time you open your mouth, you're saying bad things about your husband and children, and they all get full marks in exams. So, if the Day Master is too strong, then she will be lonely and miserable. Therefore, for a female's horoscope, the most feared thing is a strong Day Master.

If the monthly stem and branch indicate the "rest and imprisonment" state, one should be content with one's lot and manage the household. The terms "rest and imprisonment" are not from the Ziping system. In the Han Dynasty, the five - elements were classified into five states: prosperous, flourishing, resting, imprisoned, and dead. After the Tang Dynasty, the five - elements were further divided into twelve states, namely the twelve states of birth, prosperity, and storage. The meaning of "rest and imprisonment" is equivalent to saying that the Day Master is weak. So, what does it mean for the Day Master to be weak? Everyone doesn't need to memorize the twelve states of birth, prosperity, and storage. For a female's eight - character horoscope, if there are no "lu" (yang stem's place of strength) and "ren" (edge, representing strength), it means she is not prosperous. That's enough. For example, for the Wood of Jia, its place of official position is Yin and its place of imperial prosperity is Mao. For a female with Jia as the Day Master, if there is not a single character of Yin or Mao among the earthly branches, it can be considered that the Day Master is in the state of "rest and imprisonment". Then she should be content with her lot and manage the household. That is what we now call a virtuous wife and good mother. If her husband earns 500,000 yuan a month, she takes care of the household. If she earns 50,000 yuan a month, she manages the family finances with this amount. Whether it's more or less, it doesn't matter if she saves for a month or two. This is what we call a virtuous wife and mother. This is not about talking about good fortune! Since being prosperous is not good, at least when the monthly stem and branch indicate "rest and imprisonment", the family can be harmonious.

When the official star is in a favorable position, the husband will enjoy glory and prosperity. Well, having said this, I'd like to remind you all that the ancients had some rather inexplicable rules when writing articles. Both the proper official and the seven - killing are celestial stars. This is an unwritten rule! The proper official is considered good, while the seven - killing is a bit more powerful. The eating god and the hurting officer are both things that are “born” by oneself. Generally speaking, the eating god represents good things, and all good events are associated with the eating god, while bad things are associated with the hurting officer. This is an unwritten rule. When it comes to the official star being in a favorable position, in fortune - telling, there are three types of “being in a favorable position”: One is “being in command”. For example, if a person born in the Jia year is born in the Yin or Mao month, being prosperous in the monthly order is called “being in command”. Whenever the word “command” is mentioned, it always refers to the monthly branch. If it's about “being in a favorable position on the ground”, it refers to the annual branch, the daily branch, and the hourly branch. This is called “being in a favorable position on the ground”. Being prosperous in the monthly branch is called “being in command”, and being prosperous in other branches is called “being in a favorable position on the ground”.

When the official star is in a favorable position, it means that as long as any one of the earthly branches among the four pillars of the year, month, day, and hour is the prosperous position of the official star, the husband will enjoy glory. Well, don't think of the two characters "glory" as "glory and wealth". When he writes an article, it's just a kind of symbol, which at least means not being poor. Well, here, let me mention one thing in passing. If the ten gods are seated in prosperous positions or the overall situation is good, generally the wealth will not exceed ten million. If it exceeds ten million, it can't rely on this. It is also necessary to have the adjustment of the five - element balance. Well, now it's probably okay to say that a house worth over ten million represents "glory". Please note clearly, it's "being in a favorable position", not "being in the ruling position"! It doesn't mean before the age of thirty. Maybe it will only happen in old age. Only then can it be called the husband enjoying glory.

If the offspring stars (eating gods and hurting officials) are not suppressed, the children will be prominent and noble. Including the eating god, eating gods and hurting officials represent the children in a woman's natal chart. They should not be suppressed. Everyone think about what suppresses the eating god? The seal star suppresses the eating gods and hurting officials. So this sentence implies that, whether it is the husband star or the offspring star, firstly, they should be in a prosperous position, and secondly, they must not be suppressed. For example, for a woman's natal chart, if there is a positive seal pattern or a partial seal pattern at the hour pillar, we can only talk about her glory, wealth and honor later. But it's a difficult situation when it comes to her children, because the seal star suppresses the eating gods and hurting officials! Then if the eating gods and hurting officials are suppressed, there are several possibilities. There may be no children at all. Or if there are children, they may quarrel with you all the time and you can't get along well. It's also possible that the children are in the United States and you can never see them.

In short, none of them are around you to take care of you and show filial piety to you. When we look at a woman's Bazi and immediately see the Seal Pattern at the Hour Pillar, we immediately know what's going on. It's not good for the children! If you say it out, people will feel uncomfortable. We would then suggest: Under no circumstances should you let go of your money. You must keep the money at hand! Just because the Hurting Officer is not counteracted, it doesn't necessarily mean that the children will be prominent. If it's not counteracted, it just means the children won't have bad luck. For them to be prominent, it's necessary for the Eating God or Hurting Officer to be in a prosperous position.

Well, whether it's being noble or enjoying prosperity, don't take them too seriously! These two words should refer to legislative councilors or those at the rank of section chief or above. Here it's just a polite way of saying, meaning it's not bad and is okay. Even if a child graduates from university and earns a monthly salary of 80,000 or 100,000, it can be considered noble. A person with an official position should not encounter a killing star, and a person under the influence of a killing star should not meet an official star. If the official star and the killing star are mixed, how can a person have good fortune? Well, both the proper official star and the seven - killing star represent the husband star, and such women like to be管束 by others. Well, in terms of the official star and the killing star, whether the prosperity and wealth are prosperous or not is the same, but their personalities are completely different. Well, objectively speaking, it's relatively easier to deal with when using the seven - killing star. Even if she gets scolded a couple of times and her husband has some minor flaws, as long as he earns enough money, she can tolerate it.

What about those who take the proper official as their husband? Even if he has money, if he is not considerate and lacks a sense of humor, she will still be very dissatisfied. Well, this is about personality issues. What a female's horoscope most忌讳 (Note: "忌讳" can be translated as "taboo" but it's a bit hard to make it very smooth here. Maybe "what is most unfavorable" is a more general alternative) is the mixture of the official and the seven - killer. When the official and the seven - killer are mixed in the Heavenly Stems, it indicates the obvious husband and the hidden husband. The so - called obvious husband and hidden husband are legal issues, while in fortune - telling, it refers to the sequence! For a female with a horoscope having the mixture of the official and the seven - killer, it is most feared that they are revealed in the Heavenly Stems. For example, if there is a mixture of the official and the seven - killer in the Year and Month columns, in fortune - telling, it is directly said that there will be a change in marriage before the age of thirty. As for the reason for the change, it is that you deny the previous one, either because you think he is too useless or because you think he interferes too much.

Why is there a fear before the age of thirty? Everyone knows that in terms of the Heavenly Stems, you've also seen some female horoscopes. Some women who haven't even divorced yet are already shouting: "We can't get along. I'm going to break up with him. I've met so-and-so." They're making a big fuss. In the case of the Heavenly Stems, regardless of whether it's good or bad, she doesn't care about hiding it, and everyone can tell. But if there's a mixture of Officials and Killers in the Earthly Branches, others won't know. Well, if you can memorize the relationships of Lu and Jue, you'll be able to understand. Now, I'll give an example below. For Jia, when Geng and Xin appear in the Heavenly Stems, it's a mixture of Officials and Killers. If the Month Branch is Shen and the Hour Branch is You, there's a mixture of Officials and Killers in the Earthly Branches, and no one will know. Only her very close friends will be aware of it. You've also seen cases where a woman actually has two or three boyfriends, but others don't know. When we're analyzing horoscopes, we don't concern ourselves with general concepts. As long as the person involved has no objections, it's none of our business. I've personally witnessed a situation where a woman's boyfriend from before her marriage still existed even after her husband passed away, and nothing ever went wrong. So, isn't this kind of mixture of Officials and Killers just like it doesn't exist at all!

Therefore, it is necessary to be extremely cautious when analyzing the fortunes of women as well as men. When it comes to men's fortunes, it doesn't really matter if you make a few mistakes in saying whether they will make money or lose money. However, for women, just one wrong word can lead to a lot of trouble. Especially when it comes to future events, one must be even more cautious. Now we are talking about women's fortunes. In professional fortune - telling, there are three things that should never be said: Firstly, you should never say that someone will have a short life. Secondly, you should never say that someone will be childless. Thirdly, before a woman gets married, you should never say that she will outlive her husband in the future, or that she will have chaotic romantic relationships and violate traditions. So, in some books, it is directly stated that a woman with a mixed pattern of official and seven - killing stars is of low moral character. This is from the perspective of moral standards and was said in the Qing Dynasty, not now. At least, there will be a lot of trouble in terms of marriage and relationships. This is a very important point in analyzing women's fortunes.

Women attach great importance to the issue of the co - existence of the official and the seven - killing in their Bazi (Chinese astrological birth chart). Naturally, women do have this situation of the co - existence of the official and the seven - killing, and men also face this problem. Now, I'll explain the permutations and combinations of the co - existence of the official and the seven - killing for you: If the co - existence of the official and the seven - killing appears in the year and month columns, for women, it means before the age of thirty. As we all know, this is the prime time for women, and their emotional lives are colorful. What does it mean to be blessed with good fortune? "Good fortune" here is different from "good luck". Having money means having good luck. But good fortune not only means having money but also having peace of mind. If one's mind is not at peace, it can't be called good fortune, but only good luck. If the co - existence of the official and the seven - killing appears in the year and hour columns, it has nothing to do with women's Bazi. If it appears in the month and hour columns, for example, if the day master is Jia, the month branch is associated with Geng, and the hour branch is associated with Xin, it is also the co - existence of the official and the seven - killing, but the problem is much less serious. Because the month column governs the period before the age of thirty, and the hour column governs the period after the age of forty - six, with a gap of fifteen years in between. Even if a woman has two or three relationships during this time, it doesn't go too much against common sense.

When there is a mixture of official and killing stars in the month and hour pillars, it is not interpreted in terms of male and female marriages. Instead, it is regarded as indicating a weak body and susceptibility to illness. Why is it interpreted in this way? Both the official and killing stars overcome the day master. When the day master is overcome on both sides, it is interpreted as having a poor physical condition and being unable to withstand the restraint. Therefore, there is no problem with the mixture of official and killing stars in the month and hour pillars. The same applies to male charts. The mixture of official and killing stars in the month and hour pillars is interpreted as a poor physical condition.

What should a man do if he has a combination of official and killing elements in his Bazi? It's also quite good. It has nothing to do with marriage. For a man, a combination of official and killing elements means being petty but wealthy. Petty? Let me give you an example. Once, a boss invited me to Canada to do feng shui for him. He asked me, "Do you have an account with the Dutch Bank? Should you go and open one?" I asked, "Why should I open an account?" He said, "If you open an account with the Dutch Bank, you can get a discount on plane tickets." I thought it was quite funny. Wouldn't it be more cost - effective not to invite me! This is being petty. This man is a Buddhist and also the owner of a vegetarian restaurant. Once, there was a Buddha's birthday festival at Xin Park, and they ordered 20,000 buns from him. That's a lot of money, and he should have been very happy. But then he called Douliu and Yunlin to order scallions because they were a bit cheaper there. I also found it quite funny. Does he really care about such a small amount of money for 20,000 buns? So, a combination of official and killing elements means being petty, but he is really wealthy! His actions are a bit strange!

For a woman's horoscope with the co - existence of the Seven Kills and the Official, does it include having money from trivial matters? I haven't really paid attention. Because what women with this kind of horoscope care about most is marriage! Maybe there are similar phenomena that I'm not aware of. The so - called "being blessed" doesn't simply mean being wealthy. For example, if a woman gets divorced three times and gets money each time, it can't be considered as being blessed, but only having money. Well, this is what is called the co - existence of the Seven Kills and the Official.

If the official star has no other value but only one virtue, it indicates the possibility of being enfeoffed in two countries. This is the following point. If the official star meets the Heavenly Virtue and the Monthly Virtue, it is a very good thing. The Heavenly Virtue and the Monthly Virtue have been mentioned in the discussion of astrological omens. If the Heavenly and Monthly Virtues are added to the proper official star, it means that your husband star can hold a high - ranking official position. When I was talking about the Heavenly and Monthly Virtues, I briefly mentioned a little bit about the official star. Now, when talking about the official star accompanied by the Heavenly and Monthly Virtues, first of all, regardless of your Four Pillars, this only concerns the official star. If the proper official star is originally in the year pillar, from the perspective of the overall pattern, it doesn't matter.

In terms of relatives, if the Zhengguan (a term in Chinese fortune - telling) in the year column is accompanied by Tianyue De (auspicious stars in Chinese fortune - telling), as long as you have a husband or a boyfriend, this noble person will take effect. Therefore, when explaining the noble person in the context of relatives, there is no limit in terms of time, nor are there any legal issues. A husband is a man, and a boyfriend is also a man. No matter how you interpret it, it is just an object, and it is all beneficial to you. If the official star sits with a noble person and there are no clashes or combinations, and everything is fine, then really, once you get married, good fortune will come and last until his death. Well, for this female's fortune, the husband star can be interpreted in the same way as the child star.

Now, let's explain it the other way around. If the God of Cookery (Shishen) or Hurting Officer (Shangguan) is accompanied by the Heavenly and Lunar Virtues, according to the normal interpretation, it means that your children are accompanied by the Heavenly and Lunar Virtues. Just now, when I talked about whether the God of Cookery and Hurting Officer are prosperous or not, it's different when they are accompanied by noble stars. When the God of Cookery and Hurting Officer are seated in a prosperous position, it means that your son works hard on his own, starting from a junior clerk, then becoming a section chief, and then a department head, gradually getting promoted. However, if the God of Cookery and Hurting Officer are accompanied by the Heavenly and Lunar Virtues, it's different. There's no need for a step - by - step promotion. All of a sudden, an opportunity drops from the sky. In the Qing Dynasty, it was called "unorthodox official career", an inexplicable path, which is easy to understand. In the past, during the imperial examinations, if you passed the Jinshi examination, for example, if you were an imperial physician and cured the Empress Dowager's illness, you would immediately be recognized as a Jinshi. This is what the Heavenly and Lunar Virtues represent. So, if your God of Cookery and Hurting Officer are accompanied by the Heavenly and Lunar Virtues, it means that your children will have a way out in the future. This kind of interpretation comes from the most normal situation.

If your output and harm stars are combined, sit on an absolute position, are in conflict, or are accompanied by seal stars, this output and harm star originally couldn't stand firm! But if it is also accompanied by the Heavenly and Monthly Virtue Stars, it can still bring benefits to you. First, let's talk about the normal situation. That is, when your output and harm stars are accompanied by the Heavenly and Monthly Virtue Stars, once you have a child, your husband will be extremely kind to you. In the future, your child will also be capable, and you can enjoy the blessings brought by him. On the contrary, if there are punishments, conflicts, combinations, and meetings along with the Heavenly and Monthly Virtue Stars, here is an analogy, which can only be understood implicitly! You have a child with the same boyfriend. He asks you to have an abortion, but you refuse. He offers you 20 million or 50 million because of this child. Then you can also get a lot of benefits. This can only be heard as an analogy. Whether it is a normal situation or an abnormal one, when your output and harm stars are accompanied by the Heavenly and Monthly Virtue Stars, you can always get benefits from your children.

Everyone who is learning fortune - telling should know how to make analogies. Conversely, what if the proper wealth and the partial wealth are accompanied by the Heavenly and Monthly Virtues? Well, that's about men! Then your wife or your girlfriend will help you! It sounds abnormal, but from a business perspective, there's no difference. Moreover, if the peer - shoulder and the wealth - robbing stars are accompanied by the Heavenly and Monthly Virtues, it's also beneficial to you. Have you ever seen people doing business? They invite others to dinner or give gifts before starting to negotiate. Sometimes the deal can be made, and sometimes it can't.

If the Peer and Rob Wealth elements do not carry the Heavenly and Monthly Virtues, money will be lost in vain. If the Peer and Rob Wealth elements carry the Heavenly and Monthly Virtues, the effect of treating guests and giving gifts is significant. Therefore, when the Heavenly and Monthly Virtues are added to any aspect, including the relationships with relatives and the time periods, they will all bring great help to you. A person with a good fortune not only has a prosperous structure but also has noble stars. During the class, I asked the students a question: Which is better for a person, to gain through hard work or to obtain without effort? Which one is actually better? I have no opinion on this. I can say theoretically that if one has a good structure and prosperous Wealth and Official elements, they gain through hard work. If one has noble stars and favorable elements for regulating the climate, they can obtain without effort. I'm just talking about the process. As to which of the two is better, I have no opinion. Everyone should make inferences based on their own background. So, when the Official element carries the Monthly Virtue, there are such great benefits.

Regarding the two paragraphs I just mentioned, one is about the combination of official and killing stars, and the other is about the official star accompanied by the Moon Virtue. Well, it's the same for the killing star accompanied by the Moon Virtue. It doesn't have to be the proper official star. As long as any of the ten gods is accompanied by the Heavenly and Moon Virtues, it will be helpful to you. Well, the next sentence is a bit more complicated.

When using the Seven Kills, one should not encounter the Direct Officer; when using the Direct Officer, one should not meet the Seven Kills. This word "using" here in fortune - telling is called the "useful god", which is a specialized topic. Here, "using" refers to the pattern. When using the Direct Officer, one should not encounter the Seven Kills. That is, if there is a Direct Officer in the Heavenly Stems and a Direct Officer in the Earthly Branches, there should be no Seven Kills in the Heavenly Stems. When using the Seven Kills, one should not meet the Direct Officer. If the pattern is the Seven Kills pattern with the Seven Kills revealed in the Heavenly Stems and hidden in the Earthly Branches, you should not have the Direct Officer. What I just mentioned about the mixture of the Officer and the Seven Kills refers to those without roots, all in the Heavenly Stems. Usually, we are referring to the period before marriage. No matter how old you are, changing men means the mixture of the Officer and the Seven Kills! Once it has roots, it's different. If you are of the Direct Officer pattern, how can you have the Seven Kills? This is like even if you are not married but have a steady boyfriend, and then you meet other boyfriends. The trouble will be big. Well, the explanation in命理 (fortune - telling theory) is not just this little bit. For example, if it is the Direct Officer pattern in the Month Pillar and the Seven Kills comes before it, or if it is the Direct Officer pattern in the Month Pillar and the Seven Kills comes after it. Has everyone understood?

In the case of the pattern of the proper official in the month with the mixture of the official and the killing, one is in the front of the year column and the other is in the back. According to this interpretation method, the proper official in the month represents her proper spouse, and that killing represents someone outside. If the killing appears before the proper official, it means that this boyfriend was the one she knew before meeting her husband, and there is a time limit. If the proper official is in the month and the killing is in the hour column, then the boyfriend she meets later. So, will she end up with him or not? This is about those who are already married. There is a situation where a woman comes to ask: "I have two boyfriends now. One I met the year before last, and the other I met last year. They are both very nice to me. Who do you think I should marry?" She will marry the latter one because the proper official comes later and the killing comes earlier. The one with roots comes later! Do you all understand this? This is about marriage. Very few married people come to ask me about this. Before getting married, they come to ask: "I have two boyfriends now. One I met last year and the other I met the year before last. I can't decide which one to marry." It's all related. The first one she met has no roots, while the proper official she met later (the second one) has roots. So, she will marry the second one.

Theoretically speaking, in real fortune - telling, fortune - tellers won't meddle in such detailed matters. So, what if the situation is the other way around? If both the official and the killing qi have roots, then it will be troublesome. One is called the mixture of official and killing qi, and the other is called the competition between official and killing qi. For example, for a girl, if there is a mixture of official and killing qi in the Heavenly Stems, and neither the seven - killing qi nor the proper official qi has roots in the Earthly Branches, it's just like having a wild and aimless time. If they have roots in the Earthly Branches, after the wild time, one of them will remain. No matter which one it is, there will always be one left.

If both the direct official and the seven-kill have roots in the earthly branches, this is not called the mixture of official and kill. It is called the competition between official and kill. That is to say, as we see in the newspapers, a woman has two boyfriends and won't let go of either of them, which will lead to trouble. The most feared situation is when the mixture of official and kill both have roots in the earthly branches. That is a very troublesome thing. So when using the official, one should not encounter the kill. That is, the direct official pattern should not have the seven-kill, and the seven-kill pattern should not have the direct official. Once the official and kill are mixed, there is only one way, which is to combine the kill and keep the official or combine the official and keep the kill. One is to combine the seven-kill away, solve and handle it. Or in the seven-kill pattern, combine the direct official away. There will be trouble, but it can be dealt with afterwards.

Well, for this female's fate, the most taboo situation of the co - existence of the Seven Kills and the Direct Officer is not about whether your husband star is strong or weak. Whether you are rich or poor is a matter of living conditions. If there is a clash, this clash doesn't only refer to the relationship between husband and wife. For example, in the thirty - year period when the Sun and the Moon are in conflict, of course, the relationship between husband and wife is included, but what it refers to is not just about the husband - wife relationship; it includes everything, including wives and wealth.

So, when the sun and moon are in conflict, the marriage is also not good. That's because the environment is not good, which affects the relationship between husband and wife. If there is simply a mixture of official and killing stars and the husband star sits in an absolute position, it has nothing to do with the environment. It's just a matter of the relationship between you and the opposite sex. Well, when you combine the killing star and keep the official star or combine the official star and keep the killing star, it can be good or bad. If there is a mixture of official and killing stars and you combine one of them away, whether you drive away your later boyfriend or get divorced and remarry someone new, you've got to make it clean! If it's not a mixture of official and killing stars but the official star is in combination, the explanation is different. Your husband doesn't belong to you alone! He's shared! It's like your husband has some other affairs outside! So, the first important thing for a woman's horoscope is to avoid a mixture of official and killing stars, the husband star sitting in an absolute position, and the day master being too strong. Now, let's talk about another topic.

When wealth stars overlap, the mother - in - law passes away at an early age. In ancient times, when fortune - telling, aside from determining whether a couple gets along well or not, people also considered whether one could get along with their father - in - law and mother - in - law. Of course, this kind of limitation no longer exists now, but there are still some interrelated aspects. Many elderly ladies, when their sons have grown up, would take the eight - character horoscope of their sons' girlfriends and ask, "What do you think of this young lady?" What they actually mean is whether the relationship is suitable and can last long. That's all. Well, I'll take one thing into consideration. For ordinary people, they would think about whether the girl will "overpower" the in - laws. To put it more simply, it's about whether she can get along with her father - in - law and mother - in - law. It's human nature if there are some minor problems between the daughter - in - law and the mother - in - law. The key is to avoid serious issues.

When wealth stars overlap, that is, the direct wealth and the indirect wealth overlap, it is extremely prosperous. Moreover, for fifteen years, it is extremely unfavorable to the mother. This is because wealth restrains the seal! We need to know this common formula. If we are talking about a male's horoscope with prosperous wealth in the month pillar, from a mother's perspective, she might think that as long as her son is capable, it doesn't matter whether he treats her well or not. This is motherly love! Theoretically speaking, the mother represents the seal. After marriage, the mother - in - law also represents the seal. When a girl has the wealth star in command and the wealth restrains the seal, she will have a bad relationship with her mother at home. Due to the family affection, her mother can accept everything. However, the mother - in - law may not be so tolerant. So, it is said that the worst - case scenario is that the mother - in - law passes away early. The mildest situation is that she can't get along with her mother - in - law. In fact, she can't get along with any female elders.

So when encountering such a situation, we'll give advice to the person who brought the birth details. I told her: This girl is quite good and can also help make money. However, it's best not to live together. If they live together, there will be more arguments. So when wealth overlaps, the mother - in - law may pass away early. For a woman's horoscope, wealth isn't necessarily a good thing. For a woman, it's better that her husband and father are wealthy, rather than the money being earned by herself. It's a good thing that a woman can make money, but she may also become arrogant. If a young lady earns 80,000 yuan a month, it'll be difficult for her to find a husband. It's very hard to find a man with a monthly salary of 100,000 yuan.

So, according to this formula rule, when wealth overlaps, the mother - in - law will pass away early. As long as one has strong wealth, which is the first condition, the father - in - law and mother - in - law won't be taken seriously. If I can earn 80,000 to 100,000 yuan a month, where can I put my in - laws in my heart? Similarly, including the husband, if your income is less than hers, then she will have other thoughts! So, it's called "when wealth overlaps, the mother - in - law will pass away early", which also means when wealth sits in a prosperous position, the mother - in - law will pass away early. This is one rule.

Another point is related to the strength of the Day Master. Just now, we talked about the strength of the Day Master, which indicates whether a person is ambitious or doesn't want to do anything. Now, let's delve a bit deeper. A woman with a strong Day Master can handle affairs. Just now, it wasn't said that women shouldn't earn money. Here, we're talking about finance. Since the theory of fate has existed not only in modern times but also in the imperial era. I believe you all know about Wang Xifeng in *A Dream of Red Mansions*. She had to manage a lot of things. She didn't just take care of her husband; she also had to manage a large mansion with hundreds of people! During the Chinese New Year, making a set of clothes for each person and deciding how much gift to give to whom? Just this matter alone would take her a long time to handle. Only those with a strong Day Master can manage a lot of things. Those with a weak Day Master don't understand anything, even if they are wealthy.

Sometimes, let me give an example. When we watch a play, there is a lady with four maids standing behind her. Each maid holds a plate of snacks in her hand, looking very imposing. Someone asks the lady, "Madam, how should we handle this matter?" She doesn't know anything at all. Then she turns around and asks the maids, "Well, what do you think we should do?" This is what we call having a weak physical constitution. For ordinary people, having a weak physical constitution and not causing trouble for the master is a good thing. But for a wealthy family, if one's physical constitution is too weak and they can't manage affairs, then what should be done? Being too strong is not good, and being too weak is also not good. So, according to the current view, we should take the middle way. What does the middle way mean? Let me give an example. For Jia, its Lu is in Yin and its Jue is in Shen. If there is Yin, it is considered too strong; if there is Shen, it is considered too weak. As long as these two characters are not present, it is just right. Being strong enough not to interfere with the master, and being weak enough not to miss the blessings one should enjoy, that is the Doctrine of the Mean. The Doctrine of the Mean means having neither the Lin Guan position nor the Jue position. This is the Doctrine of the Mean! It is said that when the day is strong, one can manage affairs; when the day is weak, one doesn't manage affairs. Well, this is a matter of strength and weakness.

When a noble star is combined with the Horse Star, it definitely indicates a beautiful prostitute in the world of mortals. A bit further down, it's related to the noble star. That is, when a noble star sits on the Horse Star. As we all know, the Horse Star represents constant movement. When we talked about the divine omens, we mentioned that for a woman's horoscope, she originally prefers the Heavenly and Monthly Virtue Stars rather than other noble stars. It's useless if the noble star is in the year pillar. Whether it's in the month or hour pillar is a matter of age. After the age of thirty, if the noble star is in a prosperous state, it will offer great help; if it's in a declining state, it will offer only minor help. If the noble star is combined with a clash, it means repaying kindness with enmity. If the noble star is combined with a harmony, it means that the noble person not only helps you but also many others who seek his help. A woman's horoscope most忌讳 (this Chinese word seems to be a typo, it should be "忌讳" which means "avoid") having a noble star sitting on the Horse Star, because the noble person will keep moving around. Today it's this noble person helping you, and tomorrow it's another. As for a man's horoscope, it doesn't really matter. It doesn't matter if five different noble people come to help him in a day, as long as they offer assistance.

Well, for a woman's horoscope, when the noble star sits on the post-horse, it can't be interpreted in the same way. People keep offering help, but this is only possible if you're a movie star! For an ordinary housewife, it'll cause troubles. So, when the noble star sits on the post-horse, it'll lead to a lot of amorous affairs, and one will be constantly on the move. The post-horse itself represents movement. As for what it means when a certain element sits on the post-horse, it depends on the character above it. For example, if the proper official sits on the post-horse, your husband will be constantly on the move. If the proper wealth sits on the post-horse, your wife is very industrious. If the peer and robbery sits on the post-horse, one will be out dining and entertaining guests every day... and so on. Here, it's especially mentioned that women don't like the noble star to sit on the post-horse.