Female Fate (3)

The next one talks about "harmony is the most precious among the multitude".

When there are many combinations in a person's horoscope, if it's a person with many noble connections, in terms of marriage, they will be held in low esteem and be overly amorous. There are many principles in fortune - telling. Some can be applied to men but not to women. For a man's horoscope, having many combinations, such as triple - combinations and six - combinations, doesn't matter. What's the big deal about triple - combinations and six - combinations? The real meaning of having many combinations is having good popularity. You can get along well with this person and also with that person. This is a good thing. However, it won't work for a woman's horoscope. If a woman's horoscope has one triple - combination, she can't have a six - combination. At most, she can only have one of them. If she has both, her popularity will be too wide. She can get along well with everyone. At least, she is not just a housewife going out to buy groceries with a basket; she must have some kind of outside business.

For women, avoid combinations. There is a poem for women's fate: "It's not good for a woman's birthday to combine with the upper palace. The outward respect is not real." For women, avoid combinations. Once there are combinations, the outward dignity is false. Well, there are many noble people. For us men, no matter how we combine, it's always a good thing. Having many noble people is always a good thing. But it can't be judged in the same way for women. If there are too many combinations and a very wide circle of popularity, unless you are a movie star who needs people to support you. One noble person is enough! Having seven or eight noble people will cause a lot of trouble. Don't have too many noble people, and don't have too many combinations. For women, having too many combinations and being highly respected is not a bad thing in terms of money, but in terms of family and emotional life, it won't be a monogamous relationship till the end! You can easily handle things, find people, and make some money. But for ordinary women, the key is not this. She only hopes for a stable family and well - behaved children. So, having too many combinations and being highly respected is not good in terms of lifestyle. And the next problem is the issue of romantic encounters.

If the official star is accompanied by the peach blossom, she will surely be a virtuous woman in a noble family. We have talked about the peach blossom in terms of divine omens before. At that time, it was said that as long as the peach blossom doesn't conflict with you, there won't be any major problems. Now when it comes to the peach blossom for a female's horoscope, we need to explain it in more detail. For women, no matter how the peach blossom is interpreted, it's not good. However, there is one thing that is good, which is the peach blossom of the proper official. The book says that the peach blossom of the proper official brings blessings and wealth to be boasted about, while the peach blossom of the seven - killing brings wandering around the world. All kinds of peach blossoms are bad, only the peach blossom of the proper official is good. Well, after all, the peach blossom is still the peach blossom!

Why is the Zhengguan (Righteous Official) peach blossom considered good? It's because the conditions are high. For example, let's say there's a twenty-year-old young lady now. If she gets involved with a man two or three times her age, people will laugh at her. Well, that's not necessarily the case. It depends on who that man is! If he's a business tycoon, then it's different! The concubine in the Western Palace is just a mistress, but her husband is the emperor! If you're with a business tycoon, it's like "once a person attains the Dao, even his chickens and dogs ascend to heaven." Your whole family will follow suit, living in a mansion and going out in luxury cars. Instead of laughing at you, people will all say you're blessed with good fortune! So, this is what it means by "the Zhengguan peach blossom brings blessings and glory, and a worthy partner in a grand mansion." A grand mansion here is what we call a luxury house nowadays. Among all the peach blossoms, only the Zhengguan peach blossom is good, and it's all about the conditions. As for the other peach blossoms, they are all bad.

There is also knowledge in the so - called "bad" situations. When we talked about the "gods and evil stars", we only mentioned "inner peach blossoms" and "outer peach blossoms" in the brain. Now, the explanation should be broader. One is called "external peach blossoms". Today, according to the table I checked, for those born in the years of Yin, Wu, and Xu, seeing Mao is regarded as a peach blossom; for those born in the years of Shen, Zi, and Chen, seeing You is regarded as a peach blossom. This is checked from the table of the twelve stages of birth, prosperity, and storage, which is the "bathing peach blossom". What is an "external peach blossom"? It means that those born on the days of Zi, Wu, Mao, and You at the hours of Zi, Wu, Mao, and You. For example, being born on a Zi day at a Mao hour or a You hour, or being born on a You day at a Wu hour or a Zi hour. Both the days and hours are Zi, Wu, Mao, and You, which are the four cardinal directions. So, being born on the days of Zi, Wu, Mao, and You at the hours of Zi, Wu, Mao, and You is called an "external peach blossom", not an "outer peach blossom in the brain".

What is not within your normal scope is called extramarital affairs (literally "peach blossoms outside the brain"). The meaning of this "extramarital affairs" is, to put it in an easier - to - understand way, being unable to bear loneliness. It's not about money. An inappropriate analogy: A sailor's wife hasn't seen her husband for a year, and then such a thing happens. This kind of analogy is still normal. If you think about something very abnormal, that's extramarital affairs. Those who can't endure long - term loneliness are those who encounter the hours of Zi, Wu, Mao, and You on the days of Zi, Wu, Mao, and You.

It's not about being greedy for money. None of that. It's called extramarital affairs.

There is also a type called "naked - style peach blossom". Have you all seen people dressing very provocatively on the street? This has nothing to do with their private life! They just like to dress in an obviously abnormal way! They don't have any motives or malicious intentions. It's just a kind of lifestyle habit, and it's called "naked - style peach blossom".

There is another one. I can just mention the name without explanation. It's called the "Doomed Flower Curse". The "Doomed Flower Curse" refers to women in the entertainment industry who end up with no good outcome in their later years.

There is indeed a kind of baleful influence called the "Baleful Influence of Withered Flowers".

Well, these peach blossoms can be divided into several types. At the same time, it also involves the relationship of me restraining the peach blossoms and the peach blossoms restraining me, that is, I can control you and you can control me. Generally speaking, these types are mainly applicable to the peach blossoms in a woman's horoscope.

Below that, according to the classification of the twelve stages of birth and prosperity, the three - element combinations are formed by connecting three characters together: Yin, Wu, and Xu; Si, You, and Chou; Shen, Zi, and Chen; Hai, Mao, and Wei. The first four characters, Yin, Shen, Si, and Hai, are called the "Four Births". The middle four, Zi, Wu, Mao, and You, are called the "Four Peaks". The last four, Chen, Xu, Chou, and Wei, are called the "Four Treasuries". If these four characters come together, in fortune - telling theory, it is classified as a very important rule. Yin, Shen, Si, and Hai form a group of the Four Births; Zi, Wu, Mao, and You form a group of the Four Peaks; Chen, Xu, Chou, and Wei form a group of the Four Treasuries. For example, if the year, month, day, and hour pillars of your birth chart have the characters Zi, Wu, Mao, and You, or You, Mao, Zi, and Wu, it doesn't matter. As long as the four earthly branches happen to be Yin, Shen, Si, Hai; Zi, Wu, Mao, You; or Chen, Xu, Chou, Wei, that is, all the Four Births, all the Four Peaks, or all the Four Treasuries are present, then it is considered a bad fortune for a woman. Initially, it is said that all four characters of Yin, Shen, Si, and Hai should be present, but actually it is not necessary. For instance, Yin, Shen, and Hai or Hai, Shen, and Yin are also okay. In general, as long as these four earthly branches are all from the Four Births or the Four Peaks, like Zi, Wu, Mao, You or Mao, Mao, Mao, Zi, it's all right. If the four characters represent the Four Births, the Four Peaks, or the Four Treasuries, it is most taboo for a woman's fortune. There is no need to consider the pattern, nor to look at the so - called strength of the husband star. It sounds really bad in ancient books. If all Zi, Wu, Mao, and You are present, a woman will surely elope with someone. It's really an unpleasant saying.

Let's put it more elegantly. It includes both men and women. If a person has all the four "birth" earthly branches (yin, shen, si, and hai) in their bazi, this person dares to do anything and is bold enough to cause trouble. If a person has all the four "prosperous" earthly branches, it's the same for both men and women. They talk big but take little action. They describe things in the most exaggerated way, but in the end, nothing comes of it. The same goes for bad things. It seems like a great disaster is looming, and they may rush to the court several times a day, but in the end, nothing actually happens. It's the same whether it's good or bad. When a person has all the four "storage" earthly branches, which is called "birth, prosperity, and storage", then for those with all the four storage earthly branches, everything they do will have the opposite effect.

So I'm saying that the Twelve Stages of Life and Storage itself differentiates between strength and weakness. Only the Stages of Birth, Prosperity, and Storage have their own rules for independent use. Regardless of gender, we don't consider the Four Stages of Birth, the Four Stages of Prosperity, and the Four Stages of Storage. Especially for female horoscopes, I've never seen a single female with all Zi, Wu, Mao, and You in her horoscope having a good marriage, not even one. Well, this has nothing to do with clashes and punishments; it's a deviation, a deviation in the Stages of Life and Storage. By "deviation", let me give you an example. When we go to a restaurant for a meal, the first dish is fish, the second dish is still fish, and even the sixth dish is fish. No matter how delicious the fish is, it won't do! You've gone off - track.

Well, this is called the four births, the four prosperous stages, and the four storage stages. It is very unfavorable for a female's fate. For female fates, the rules applied are probably less than thirty. No matter how you talk about it, it's all within these thirty rules. I've just mentioned so many rules, including a lot of regulations. None of these are really about something extremely inauspicious. Regarding this matter of good and bad fortune, even if a woman only gets one thing, it doesn't count as a great misfortune! Having many favorable combinations indicates nobility. She may not have a good relationship with people, but she has money! There's always something.

Now, let's talk about something rather unpleasant. For women's fortunes, have you ever heard the term "Gu Luan" in newspapers or on TV? I'm sure you have. In magazines and newspapers, the term "Gu Luan" is often used as if it were a story! The real "Gu Luan" has no specific year or month; it only refers to the "Gu Luan Day". "Gu Luan" means the day of birth. And this "Gu Luan" is about women, not men. Why is it called the "Gu Luan Day"? You've been learning about fortune - telling for a long time. Think about what the "day" represents. The "day" represents the ages from 31 to 45, which are the best years of a person's life! The occurrence of "Gu Luan" is when the husband star is in the "Jue" position on the day, and there are only four such days.

For example, on the day of Jia Yin, Jia takes Geng as her husband. Geng sits in the state of Jue. You sit on the land where your husband is in the state of Jue. From the age of 31 to 45, your husband is in the state of Jue. It doesn't mean that you don't have a husband. It means that your husband is helpless. So, during these fifteen years, your husband is always helpless. What should you do? Generally, people can't stand it. It's okay to tolerate it for a year or two. For example, if your husband doesn't bring back a single cent for three years, it's really hard to deal with. As the saying goes, poverty makes a couple sad in every aspect!

First, on the day of Jiayin, it is the Wooden Tiger. For Jia, Metal is regarded as the husband. Metal is in the state of exhaustion at Yin. This is based on the Twelve Stages of Prosperity and Decline and the representation of relatives together. When fortune - telling reaches any detailed aspect, it cannot be separated from these four sets of rules, only used in a more detailed way. For Jia, Geng is regarded as the husband, and Geng is in the state of exhaustion at Yin.

Second, on the day of Wushen, it is the Earth Monkey. Wu takes Wood as its husband, and Wood is in a state of extinction at Shen.

Thirdly, on the Dingsi day, it is the Fire Snake. Ding takes water as its husband, and water is in the state of extinction at Si.

Fourthly, on the Xinhai day, it is the Golden Pig. Xin takes fire as its husband, and fire is in the state of extinction at Hai.

Then, this situation where the day stem sits on the absolute of the husband is called "Lonely Phoenix". It doesn't take the birth time and Chinese zodiac into account. There are four days: the day of Wood Tiger (Jia Yin), Earth Monkey (Wu Shen), Fire Snake (Ding Si), and Metal Pig (Xin Hai). So, for all those whose day stem sits on the absolute of the husband, we define these days as "Lonely Phoenix Days". Now, think about it, it's the same in another way. If Jia is born in the Yin month, it sits on its own prosperity, but the husband sits on the absolute. If a person is born on a Jia day in the Yin month, the husband also sits on the absolute, but it's the absolute in the month branch. In terms of命理 (I'm not sure if there's an exact English equivalent, maybe "the theory of fate calculation"), there are two viewpoints, not two factions! One is about whether a woman having a bad marriage before the age of thirty counts as a bad fate, or whether having a bad marriage after the age of thirty counts as a bad fate.

Opinions vary on this. One school of thought believes that if the star representing the husband in the lunar chart is in an unfavorable position, it's not good. No matter how good you are after the age of thirty, it's a bit out of the right time. So the key lies in whether one is in an auspicious or inauspicious period. As for the other school, it doesn't matter. At most, one will marry late. If your marriage is not going well between the ages of thirty and forty - five, then it will be very troublesome. There are very few men and women who don't have a partner before the age of thirty. So what should they do? There's no time! It's wrong to get divorced, and it's also wrong not to. So in the end, it's the main element of the day pillar that matters.

So, who is more important and who is less important in terms of this fortune-telling? There is no standard. The real standard actually depends on the age of the person involved. What age should be considered the standard! Before she turns thirty, the month is the main factor; after she turns thirty, the day becomes the main factor. Can things get better after you reach forty-five? Yes, they can. So, the so - called "Lone Phoenix Day", including the "Lone Phoenix Month", there is no "Lone Phoenix Hour". There is no such thing as a "Lone Phoenix" at the hour position. Because her age has already passed the stage where this kind of thing matters. Well, this is the "Lone Phoenix", where the husband star sits at the absolute position, and it can be regarded as a topic.